Love Wins

 

Life is a garden. Pulling weeds and battling pests is agravating work but that's the lows of gardening. You must learn to appreciate the middle ground between seed and fruit. You cannot have Love and Joy without the pain of development. The caterpillar must endure the struggle to receive the gift of the wings.... to be the beautiful Monarch. In the heart and soul, it knows it is on a journey- dying six times to receive the prize. The great maestro has a solo picked out for you to eventualy play but you don't get the part without putting in the work. Fathers/men don't bitch. They roll up their sleeves and endure the storm. Children become to be strong because they aren't taught to give up. You have to be strong and figure out how to adapt and correct or compensate for the weaknesses, and or strengths, of your partner. Remember- she is learning about relationships too. Neither one of you are well versed in previous marriages. It's a trail in life, there are rocks and roots you'll stumble over. Love is unconditional. Bite your tongue and be diplomatic. You can forever damage the relationship with just one word. Fertilze the soil in your garden so your plants will thrive. Remember the lovemaking and the good times. Even worse struggles are coming to mankind than to have to pick up partially drank cans of pop, and a fan runnin in the bedroom nonstop that makes me have to put on a sweater. The "system" wants us all arguing amongst ourselves so we may not rise up in voice of opposition. Fall in and become the teacher. Never give up on your marriage.

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